Madam Helix
Sacramento Dominatrix
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) – Sessions & Consultations
1. What is a Session?
A Session is a consensual experience where a dominant individual (Domme/Dom) takes control and guides the submissive (sub) through various activities that cater to power dynamics, physical sensations, psychological control, or fantasy fulfillment. These sessions are customized based on the desires, limits, and consent of all parties involved.
2. What happens during a consultation?
During a consultation, we will discuss your experience level, interests, boundaries, and goals for the session. This is the time to ask any questions and express any concerns you might have. The consultation helps both parties ensure that the session is safe, consensual, and tailored to your preferences.
3. Are these sessions safe?
Safety is always a top priority. All activities are conducted within negotiated boundaries, with a focus on consent, communication, and respect. Safe words are established before the session to allow you to stop or adjust the intensity at any time.
4. What is a safe word, and how does it work?
A safe word is a pre-agreed term used to pause or stop the session. Common examples are “red” for stop and “yellow” for slow down. The safe word ensures that the session remains consensual and within the boundaries set beforehand.
5. Do I need experience to book a session?
No prior experience is necessary. Beginners are welcome, and the session will be adapted based on your comfort level. The consultation will help determine what activities and intensity are appropriate for you.
6. How long does a typical session last?
Sessions can vary in length depending on your preferences and the type of session booked. Typically, sessions last from 1 to 2 hours. Longer sessions can be arranged with prior discussion.
7. What should I wear or bring to a session?
You can wear anything that is discreet on the way to the session. You may bring whatever makes you feel comfortable or aligns with the fantasy you’re exploring. Some people prefer to wear fetish gear, while others opt for simple, everyday clothing. I will communicate any specific requirements during the consultation.
8. Is there a limit to what activities can be included in a session?
Yes, all activities must be discussed and mutually agreed upon during the consultation. Any activities outside your comfort zone or consent will not be included. Respecting boundaries is a fundamental part of a session.
9. Can I request specific fetishes or activities?
Yes, you are encouraged to share your interests and specific fetishes during the consultation. Every session is customized to your desires within the boundaries of safety, legality, and mutual consent.
10. Will there be physical contact during the session?
This depends on the nature of the session. Some sessions may involve physical contact, such as spanking or bondage, while others may focus on psychological domination without any physical touch. All contact is negotiated beforehand.
11. Are sessions private and confidential?
Absolutely. Discretion is of the utmost importance. Your personal information, session details, and any discussions will be kept strictly confidential.
12. How do I pay for a session?
Payment details and options will be discussed during the consultation. Sessions are typically paid upfront, and deposits may be required to secure your booking.
13. Can I cancel or reschedule a session?
Yes, but cancellations or rescheduling must be done within a specific time frame, usually 24 to 48 hours in advance. Please refer to the cancellation policy provided during your booking.
14. Are there age restrictions for these sessions?
Yes, you must be 18 years or older to participate in a session or consultation.
15. Can I bring a partner or friend to a session?
This depends on the type of session and prior arrangements. Some sessions may allow for a partner to participate or observe, but this must be discussed during the consultation.
16. How can I prepare for my first session?
Preparation may vary depending on the activities planned. General advice includes:
- Stay hydrated and avoid alcohol or drugs before the session.
- Communicate openly about any medical conditions or concerns.
- Ensure you have a clear understanding of boundaries and safe words.
17. What if I feel nervous or anxious?
It’s completely normal to feel nervous, especially if it’s your first time. The consultation process is designed to help ease your anxiety, and open communication throughout the session will ensure you feel comfortable and in control.
18. Do I have to engage in sexual activity?
No, sessions are not necessarily sexual in nature. While some activities may have a sensual element, the focus is on the power dynamic and psychological or physical exploration.
19. What if I don’t know what I want from a session?
If you’re unsure about what you’re interested in, that’s perfectly okay! The consultation can help you explore different possibilities and guide you toward what might intrigue or excite you. There’s no rush to make decisions, and sessions can evolve over time.
20. How do I book a session?
To book a session, simply contact through the Apply to Serve page to set up a consultation. After the consultation, you’ll be able to schedule your session based on availability and preferences.